What an absolutely free man? Are there among us?
Perhaps a free man - a fairy tale for any modern woman, because this species is found less frequently. The fact is that by 30-35 years in virtually any member of the stronger sex has a criminal record, if not outstanding, it has a broken marriage. And the most capable and hurried already pay is not the first year of maintenance for their minor offspring or become jaded unsuccessful novels misogynist.For simplicity, better assess the freedom of man as his lack of a permanent life partner, whether girlfriend or wife, a constant friend (that does not exclude the presence of a non-permanent girlfriends).
He has a normal job that suits him. Because if he does not, then it is not a free man, as usual slacker. Or loser. Or one who is so rich that can afford not to work for hire. He has enough free time, he can only be carried out with you. If he has no free time, it is a workaholic, or just not the one about whom we speak. So, this is not your option.Now that is man's freedom and what it leads.To get started on the sad. Any freedom - it's a little habit. And often harmful habit. This is especially true of those men who do not live alone, but, for example, with parents. When a friend wants to eat, it fed. When his only pair of jeans are so dirty that he had already begun to doubt that the purchase they were a gentle blue color, they are washed.
He was changing linens. Darn socks. And, in principle, such freedom for a very comfortable and pleasant. And the girl will be just a nice application to the existing comfort.A man who is accustomed to getting everything from someone else is unlikely to have learned to take care of another person. The likelihood that even being with you, he would always require the usual comfort him, and turn you into his maid rises sharply. And it you want?
The maximum that you can get with such a comrade - a pleasant walk and another pleasant pastime. But forget that you can very quickly and successfully retrain him by himself. Man is far less flexible than a woman and sometimes rebuild it in a new way, when you already begin to form relationships would be too difficult.And here is a combination of both freedom and responsibility is very valuable.
But in nature is quite rare. Although, judging from my observations, occurs at any age and even plain-looking men. This is the level of freedom, which led to the maturity of a man to understand them, if you want a natural purpose - to care and protect.Since such a combination, as we have already noted, in nature are fairly rare, we can mention here only some signs of similar maturity:
1. Ownership. The fact that your potential chosen is his own, and not received them by inheritance from his grandfather or a gift from his parents home, whether it is studio "Khrushev or five-storey mansion is serious about the fact that this person can and knows how to work that he was motivated and responsible.
And still very diligent and patient.For the naive girls can immediately note that if your chosen estSvobodny man car, which is under a guarantee from the issuing money for its purchase of the bank, then this car is not even his property. Symptom property belongs to the major acquisitions and it can not be applied to the entire row. After all, you will agree, it is possible to own the same bike on which you can ski in the summer on the shady streets. But it is good only in the summer. And only until a certain age.
After which you want to either go in and turn it bikers riding on a motorbike in the way of life. Or, transplanted comfortable in all seasons car. Also the rest. You can not build castles in the air all my life and write off the failure to build castles in the real wicked game of fate - to change their own lives for the better.
2. Calmness and confidence. As opposed to: restlessness and doubt. Calmness and confidence - is that a given nature in the form of temperament, or gained in the process of progress already in the process of life benefits.Have you ever noticed that only a calm and confident person achieves in life far more than those who constantly doubt themselves or fuss involved in all in a row and still did not have time? And if you noticed, it is not noted to himself that being next to the first much more comfortable than the second?
And if not comfortable, then you are doomed to permanent changes in his own life if you plan to connect or have already tied her up with a similar subject.
3. Ability and skill to care. If you prefer to take care of themselves and others, it is a feat. Then you can soon be enrolled in a group of ascetics, and a couple of centuries, may be considered to be saints and that of the icon to your image unfortunate neophytes will seek the assistance and support in their everyday difficulties. But this article is for those who are able to take care of not only others but also enjoys the fact, when taking care of him.Ability and skill to care very difficult to assess. It is unobtrusive and questions about your health.
And the unexpected gifts necessary and useful things that you now need. This is a strange coincidence, when you remember about the precise moment when you need to participate or support. And much more.It is strange that the ability to care is estimated by some girls as the amount you're willing to spend on them by their cavalier. It's a bit wrong. The amount of money as if it was not great, alas, will never replace the simple human compassion. When you have a serious frost Epiphany suddenly broke down halfway to the city is your favorite car, and your chosen one threw the case and came to rescue you, it does not replace any luxurious spending. Do you agree?
mature russian woman
