favorite people traded me to another
We were betrayed. Treason. Sadness. Depression. Nobody wants to believe. No one can comfort him. Nothing can distract. Naturally, all this is bad. Very bad. It crashed a lot - the most favorite people traded me to another. Any betrayal, whether it is a betrayal of the husband or wife's adultery, or easier - a betrayal of a girl or a betrayal of the guy is a change in the prevailing tradition dating all the time, the change of rhythm.
Naturally, this stress. We do not like change. Even if the work we transferred to a higher position. Even if the house at the time off the water and nothing even water the flowers. The man, in fact, becomes a slave of his habits. I assure you, dear reader, a habit of a man very similar to the habit of comfort. Stress from separation, even with the unloved or hated almost the same as that of parting with one or those with whom we have sort of been love. And what is love? Very apt definition gave her heroin D.-L. Hewitt in the once popular movie "Heartbreakers": love - this set of circumstances, the combination of hormones and simple chemistry. Recall the recent past the time when families are created by the will of the parents. Whether there was a lot of love? Not at all. But she still appeared, but not at first sight. And even less - since the first years of life together.
However, you are sure that you have been love. And not a habit. Where such ideas, if not secret? Love, one of the definitions, it Lyubovpostoyannoe desire for happiness loved one, the constant care that he was happy with you. But it is altruistic, giving love. And there is also a consumer. We want to get attention, care, caress. The feeling of stability.Guarantees fidelity. I want it constantly, and not from time to time. And this is a selfish beginning. But it is love. Paradox? We appreciate and love. We receive and love. Are there too many contradictions for the same feelings? But, parting habit remains.
Even if love ends. After all, we have, as a mechanism, "incarcerated" under a specific person. We know him well enough to get used to its advantages and disadvantages. It's easy to imagine again the example of constant friction mechanisms: for a long time, simple work details so lapped to the shortcomings of each other that if one of the parts is broken, then we have to change the whole complex whole - while "grinding" with the new detail is completed, it will break even one of the "old men". IzmenaNe so we are trying to find himself in his youth one person to "life"? Order to immediately tune in to him, to make our life a habit.
Not to worry, that will sooner or later take something new, rebuilt under it. In fact, betrayal - this separation. When we fall out of the usual cycle of "friction". When we look for the familiar neighbor, to whom "priterlis", but did not find. Naturally, this stress: he or she is someone "priterlis", and here we are - no. We are ready to work in the same rhythm, with the same neighbor. And it is no longer beside him. What can be done with the part that can not work with the new neighbor? You can try to create for her old environment, which is impossible in principle. Because it will look the same faults and scratches, and that on the former neighbor.
Therefore, the old part is to upload to melt, where she was reworked, and it will be ready for a new cycle of work. In any new environment. Since we are no details and no careful owner did not send us into the furnace, so that there is of us have done anything, we need to melt themselves absolutely alone. This is a long and laborious process, which we discuss in our next article.
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