How to choose a girl for life
Any betrayal - it is a consequence of free choice, which we all are endowed from birth. Suppose someone believes in fate, but agree that our future depends on our own actions in the present.After all, if we go on the road and suddenly ran up to us to kind of aggressive dog, then only depends on us - what to do next.
You can throw stones at her and get a bite, and then treated for possible rabies. And you can give her a piece of bread and make it his best friend. To close your man is not gone from you to another, you should also always use this to you on the nature and the possibility to choose. And to be able to make the right choice. Let's talk about this issue from the very beginning of acquaintance with the girl.
We divided the incentives to change to internal and external. Let's start with the first. As in the old days, you will always be desirable "to choose the man for himself. But the ever-changing criteria for forced many men to commit the same mistakes. For example, the probability of a "cuckold" increases dramatically when: - Your darling is a typical "Dummy", which is constantly busy with a view to produce the opposite sex as possible impression. It is very easy - just pay attention to her behavior in the circle of your friends. If she is actively flirts with them, flirting, builds his eyes, it means only one thing - treason for her - the question of the situation and time.
Tips for men-girl grew up an only child in the family, not knowing failure almost anything.Naturally, this "gift of fate", over the years has become even more capricious. But now it is not necessary the most expensive Barbie and luxury cars and a penthouse in the heart of the capital, like a well-known socialite, she often sees on television. Naturally, if you can not give her all this, then sooner or later it will take all this as a gift from the other "well-wishers. And this means that in its own "rating" you're not the first. You need it? - Mademoiselle emotionally fragile, unstable and even one day can not live without adventure.
Without going into details, let's call it mental instability on the basis of physiological dependence (same adrenaline or endorphins). The external promote their own "positive" for a lady - a constant need. Of course, that you, even if you own an adventurer in life, just not enough time to keep it constantly in a state of emotional arousal. And, sooner or later, this will be done by someone else. - Her sexual needs well above your. If you are missing one night a week, she thinks about the intimate times. Her "fantasy" so wide that you just can not control how far they zavedut. It is only for a time to leave her alone (your long business trip when it is forced idleness), how to run a simple mechanism for compensation - the missing of you it will compensate on the side. Idleness, as the ancient science of philosophy, the mother of many ills - from the simplest alcohol to adultery. That is why we advise you at every opportunity to motivate your chosen one to work, either stitch or stamp collecting.
Any hobby requires time and participation. Do you think, than paying jealous that forbid his wife to work, insisting that she was sitting at home? And look at this from: Always deal with cleaning and cooking is simply impossible. And, then, it will seek to change overexposed life, constant and monotonous rhythm. Very well, if she starts, for example, to write his memoirs or draw pictures. And if not? Human nature abhors a vacuum. Even if you are already acquainted always important to know your circle of friends darling. Pay particular attention to her friends. And even more attention - the "best" friends. Let us explain - why. If you read any book on social psychology, you will surely see that there are blurred for a few pages thought: human behavior influenced by two main factors - genetics and social environment. Naturally, the book is deeply analyzed and carefully dealt with, but this is a "verbal tinsel.
The main thing that you should allocate to this - that a girl from a good family in a bad environment can become a washed-up fool, capable of a mass of "madness". Do not you understand? Then a simple example. She is only 26-30 years. Her friends - abandoned by their husbands' divorcee and single mother.Even worse - if her friends - lonely sluts with delusions of grandeur. And. Sooner or later in your nest there comes a small conflict. It can be anything. For example, you constantly forget to turn off the lights in the kitchen at night. Or visit regularly shower.
Despise shaving. You are simply appreciate style of her new dress. Anything, any excuse! For example, most councils muzhchinamnedavno told me about how the family split up only because her husband "cleave" remnants of the old soap for a new piece. This has angered too fastidious wife, as a result, after weeks of quarreling about it, they parted.Stupid? And you are insured by this, dear reader? If you think that yes, I think you are too arrogant! During the conflict, each confident in their own right. I tend to have greater confidence, to access an outside opinion. And she went to your chosen one of her friends failed state ... How do you think they will tell her about you? But they envy your happiness! You just about have not guessed. So: if at least two of them wish to be reconciled to her and not quarrel nonsense - you have chosen a wonderful companion of life. Can safely to be with her more. But, as practice shows, any such "a failure" would make a lot of reasons only your wrong! And, worse, if you begin to compare with those who never forgets to turn off the lights, walk-in shower, shave as much five times a day and admires his wife's taste in clothes. If this happens, and you, unfortunately, did not know about this, then your relationship will begin to be subjected to serious risk ... And if your chosen one will follow the advice not to her friends, but to his mother? And with her mom you have not developed relationships? No need to be an analyst to predict the view from the side. That is why, dear man, when you choose a companion for the next few years / all my life, do so not only appreciating her family (heredity), but also must take into account those with whom she used to communicate (social environment, the environment).
Be sure to evaluate those whose opinion means for her no less than that of its mother. Only when you understand that these "enemies" around your little girl (not to be !!!), they can not then you can easily develop your relationship, do not forget from time to compromise. So, you need to know, after reading this article, that:
1. By nature you are endowed with a choice. No one can force you to do as you would not want to.
2. Particular attention is paid to the choice you need one with whom you are planning a serious relationship.
3. Carefully define the priorities of your chosen one, the terms of its communication. Match them with their own.
4. Learn to understand the actions of his girl. Learn to distinguish between its own actions and those that are stimulated by external (mother-in-law, a friend of a failed state, etc.).
5. If you are sure you will be able to overcome the "bad influences" ill-wishers, and you really can. But do it for you?
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